May nag pa post lang sa akin n2 :mika:

What is the right thing to do if your ex bf dsnt like to be your friend after your break-up? rison nung guy "ayaw ko maging friends tau dahil baka ma fall lang ule ako sau" anu dapat gawin nung girl? sa guy ng galing na mag break na cla pero knbukasan gs2 nya maging cla ule, pero ang gs2 nung girl maging friends nlng muna cla dahil masyado na nggiging posesiv ung guy, kailangan alam nung guy lahat ng mga ktxt nung girl, lalo na pag lalake, kelangan ikkwen2 sakanya nung babae lahat ng nktxt nya, tapos minsan pnag bbawalan nung lalake ung babae na mkpg txt sa lalake, kahit mki gimik kasama friends nung girl bawal rin, so inasked sya nung gf nya na "lose me or follow my standard" sabi nung guy, "LOSE YOU" so tnaggap nung babae un, pero nung nag hahabol na ung guy, ang sagot nung girl "friends nlng muna tau dahil baka maulit lang mga ngyri noon" :mika:

^ classic answer :xd:

nyway... kahit din naman ako di makikipagbalikan sa lalakeng ganyan... relieved siguro yung girl nung yung guy ang nagopen ng topic na yan. IMO, advice sa guy: lumayo siya muna at magisipisip ^_^ magmunimuni kung baga :D

aww grabe naman magfreak out yung lalake dyan ah /omg parang asawa mas grabe pa amf .. parang buhay nya yung babae .. ayaw ko gn ganyan meron din ako naging bf na ganyan.. i have to leave him para matuto sya to stand on his own without me di ko na din naman mahal eh /heh

Actually, hindi ganon ka-bilis na maging friends kayo ng ex mo. Believe me it takes months or even years to forgive someone you once loved, syempre kasi may REASON kung bakit kayo nag break, so syempre nasaktan ka din naman sa reason na yun, kaya MAHIRAP talaga maging friends kayo.

It takes time to heal "the" wounds, hindi yan overnight. Actually, I find it amusing pag "friends" ang ex's kasi it's not everyday that you find ex's as "friends", kasi usually ang isa bitter kaya ayaw makipag kaibigan, and yes tama ang guy na BAKA bumalik yung feelings niya for the girl if he has not yet gotten over her.

The girl CANNOT do anything about it, she just has to wait for the "right" time na mapatawad siya ng ex niya. A person will never forget not unless he/she has COMPLETELY forgiven the other.

MALI, ang maging possessive ang guy, lalo na kung EX mo na siya. He should not have control of his exs' life anymore. MALI ang sumunod ang girl sa kanya (but I would not blame her, she is being "blinded" by what we can call the "pathetic" type of love.) Yung tipong, nasanay siya na nandyan yung guy, nasanay siya na boyfriend niya yung guy, nasanay siya na GANYAN yung guy sa kanya, kaya she ALLOWS him to take control of her. Which is way wrong. (Believe me it is already being stupid, I've been there, na-realize ko lang na sobrang tanga na ako after we broke up.)

At least, the girl said NO. All she has to do is be firm about it. Panindigan niya ang pag sabi sa guy na "friends" muna sila. If she meant "friends" LITERALLY, it is not going to be easy, it WILL take time, really.

Tell the girl that she should not allow the guy to control her like that.
HAYAAN niya manigas yung lalake diyan, basta mag paka-saya siya.
If the guy texts her, tell her NOT to reply.
If the guy calls her, tell her NOT to answer.
If the guy wants to see her, tell her to REJECT the offer.

(I only have one theory about this, the girl still loves the guy, that's why she is allowing him to take control of her life. Chances are she would not listen to you, but at least you've done your part as a her friend).

A true friend SCOLDS like a Dad,
CARES like a Mom,
TEASES like a Sister,
IRRITATES like a Brother,
and finally,
LOVES you more than a lover.

@ ^

:mika: Tinamaan ako :shy:

[ Actually, Nde na sya sumusunod doon sa guy, after nla mag brk. Nakkatxt na sya sa akin eh, at nggwa nya na lahat ng gusto nya, pero 3 days plng na wala cla, so cgro masyado nya na mmiss ung guy ]

Yan na nga rin sinabi ko eh, sinabihan ko na rin na wag na sumagot sa text nung guy kc 2wing nag ttext ung guy lagi lang cla nag aaway at naiinis lang sya dahil ang kapal nung guy, pero ang sagot nung girl sa akin, pano daw cla mgging friends kung nde nya ssagutin ung text nung guy /swt lagi sinasabi nung guy sknya "Pag-isipan mo mabuti, dahil baka wala kna balikan" meaning tingin nung guy sya ung hhbulin nung girl. Sinabi ko na rin na mag icp icp muna cla dalawa nung lalake, mas mabuti wag muna cla mag usap, magulo pa icp eh, nung tuesday lang nag break, at pareho nla 1st tym,tsaka kahit ppanu nag tagal din cla ng 1 year.

Yes, Mahal nya pa ung guy, pero she needs space.

Masyado mataas ung pride nung guy, "nde na daw sya pwde mag bago, ung mga rules nya nde nya kelangan baguhin, panindigan na daw nya un, dahil baka icpn ng tao wala syang 1 salita" (rules: Bawal mkpg text sa ibang boys, or pag nkpg text kelangan alam nya lahat ng pnag usapan. Bawal lumabas ung girl [gimik] kasama ung friends, pag nde sya kasama. Kelangan mabilis mag reply ung grl dahil baka may iba raw ktxt na guy. tsaka mnumura sya nung guy eh, kahit dala lang ng init ng ulo panget pa rin na mmurahin mo ung gf/bf mo, lalo na pag lalake ka tapos mmurahin mo ung babae, para syang nde 2nay na lalake)

btw, thank you mameh fel /kis

@ iccy

aba aba, nde mo yan sakin na kwen2, tagal na rin naten wala chikahan sa YM.

ung best friend ko yan nag pphelp, lagpas 1 yr na rin kami nde nag ttext, den ngulat nlng ako nung tuesday ng gabi, nag text, wala na daw cla =((

@ mameh lexa

ang kafal kafal kasi nung guy, feeling nya kawalan nung girl pag nwala sya.

^ parang makafal nga /heh mga ganyan kelangan muna kumain ng humble pie para matuto :aversion:

may naalala ako sinabi ng friend ko sakin dati e... something about love being very fickle... its true that you may love him/her/it now pero there will come a time na hindi mo na masasabi yan ^_^ something like that =p

prince-sama /kis2

ang sama naman ng guy na yan

well may kilala din ako pero ung gurl ung posessive

share ko lng :)

kc naman ba, ung gurl hate sha ng lhat! ng buong ka batch namin, as in nagiging close kameng lahat dahil sa mga latest chismis tungkol sa kanya. tapos niligawan sha ng ka close kong guy at ngaun cla na, so kaninang umaga may nag planuhan na kameng manonood ng movie (shempre ininvite namin ung gurlaloo maski we dnt like her noh) so nung pasukan plng ok pa ung guy dun sa movie marathon ng barkada den paguwian na nde na daw sha pwede wla na shang pera (**** ng ina kinuha nnmn ng gurl ung wallet nun) pra nde makasama >_< ang sama grabe >_<

lol pala siya eh :lolz: di pa naman sila mag-asawa eh

@ ^

agree agree /ok /ok

ive been there na rin :aversion:

@ paue

0.o? ung gf ko noon selosa pero nde posesiv, ako lang ung posesiv pero nde ung 2 da point na knukuha ko ung mga gamit nya or cel fone, minsan pag ksma ko sya tapos may nag text sknya ask ko lang kung cnu, pag paulit ulit na ung txt, tapos minsan pnpkta nya skn, minsan nde, kung ayaw nya okay lang bhla sya :lolz:

sibihin mo sa gurl,wag na siyang makipagkaibigan..minumura pala siya e..grabe naman kamartyr niya kung tumatagal siya sa ganung lalake..kung magsyota palang sila ganyan na umasta si lalake panu kung mag asawa na? bugbug sarado? bantay bata este dswd(tama b? nangangalaga sa battered wife) labas nya nyan.. :lolz:

hahaha! cnb ko na nga rin eh, love is blind tlga /e5

@prince
hihi naging busy ka kasi ;)) nassense ko /heh .. naexperience ko na yan >.< .. mahirap tlga magdesisyon sa part na yan tutal bestfriend mo yan eh nandyan ka naman palagi para sa kanya.. pero wala din tlga maganda mangyayari kung magkabalikan man sila lalo lang sya masasaktan.. its either maging sila at magssuffer lang sya ng husto or end up nlng, believe me total relieve ng girl na yan after :xd: kasi ako after a matter of time naisip ko dami ko nasayang nung kami pa sana mas naging close kami ni ganito ganyan eh pero wala na din naman magagawa part na rin naman ng past /heh

yeah, that kind of guy freaks me out. ako pa naman ang type who won't care about my boyfriend's cellphone, wallet, etc - basta personal belongings, it's his right to have some private space and i expect the same thing.

some time ago may nanligaw sa akin and i found it annoying that he asks me what i do every 10-15 minutes tapos ibang cell network pa. of course, busted siya big time. the wierd question was, if i had feelings for him in the first place, would i actually find it kilig? siguro. however, if that was the case, eh d ganyan din mangyayari - sakalan.

natural lang ma hurt ang babae na maiwan ng bf. pero yes, tama si lexa, R E L I E V E D din ang babae kasi di na siya pressured maging "perfect" para sa bf niya and also biglang "may life" na siya.

private space is important in every relationship kasi nga in order to love others, you must love yourself first.

nasabi ko na sknya ung mga sagot nyo, pero tama c mameh fel, nde tlga mkkinig skn kc bulag pa sa pag mmahal, feeling ko 2loy kontrabida ang labas ko. :cursed:

re: doon sa sabi ni mameh fel na :

Tell the girl that she should not allow the guy to control her like that.
HAYAAN niya manigas yung lalake diyan, basta mag paka-saya siya.
If the guy texts her, tell her NOT to reply.
If the guy calls her, tell her NOT to answer.
If the guy wants to see her, tell her to REJECT the offer

ask nya, pano daw cla mgging friend kung ganyan ggawin nya? /hmm

nasagot ko ung tanung nya, pero sympre iba pa rin pag ng galing sa mga experts d2 :mika:

@ iccy

tama, ako rin gnun na realize ko noon sa ex ko, pero ayos lang, wala na mggwa eh, tapos na.

ah, natural lang naman yan. it may take a day, a week, a month but eventually and hopefully, she truly realizes that she is better off without him, she will, by natural laws, drop him like a hot potato.

hindi naman kasi ganun kadali magmove on db? we, as friends, could only give advise and the actuality would be up to our broken hearted friend. but the bottom line is, she should try avoiding him for a while, for example, pwede naman sumagot sa text but at least give it a 15-30 minute space in between. well meeting him and going out with him is a different story already.

anyway, just be a friend by not making her hear only what she wants to hear, it won't help her. ask mo pa si fel, very frank and brutal ako pag ganyan na ang mga sumbong sa akin ng mga kaibigan ko. they may think i am such a bad adviser but at the end of the day, they thank me for making them realize that they deserve more than being treated like a doormat. so don't think contrabida ka, siguro just tell her what she needs to know then be there for whatever will be the outcome of her own decision. for now, just give her the benefit of the doubt. ung ex niyang closed-minded hahaha - he'll end up a loser if he doesn't grow up.

men who act like that don't deserve anyone due their own insecurity, kailangan niya katapat and i guess your friend's push-pull indecision is a boost to his already over-inflated ego [needle prick please!].

ouch :pwn3d:

@topic

love is blind. siguro hintayin n lng mahimasmasan ung girl, kasi IMO dadating din ung time na makikita nya ung situation from your perspective and tatawanan na lang nya ung mga actions na pinag-gagawa nya ngaun /ok

Well it really does take time. Hindi yan OVERNIGHT na, break kayo,
the next day FRIENDS kayo. That is going to be such a hypocritic act.
Parang sinabi niyo na hindi kayo nag-mahalan,
wala kayong pinag-awayan kaya kayo nag break,
kaya the next day friends kayo.
Malabo yan. Believe me.

For my ex and I to become officially "friends" was for me to be able to forgive him. Yes it took me months before I decided to answer his calls. I wanted to assure to myself na totally wala na akong feelings for him.

I must admit after the break-up, he'd usually text me, I'd usually reply, tapos we ALWAYS end up arguing, which makes the situation more difficult for us to be friends, basta he bothers me all the time, calls me (hindi ako sumasagot),
sends me sms saying that "he misses me", "he still loves me", "he wants to see me" (hindi ako nag rereply).
I kept a firm answer of NO every time he asks me out.

Then one day, he started arguing with me, he wants us to be friends kasi, which was really complicated because I know we both still have feelings for each other, last thing I said before I put down the phone was, Please let's just end this call, I wouldn't want to hate you for as long as I live, tama na yung sakit na-nararamdaman natin, time will eventually heal all wounds.

It took me months to get over him (more than 3 years ba naman kayo mag-kasama) then he called, I answered the phone, alam mo kung ano sinabi niya? He needs my advice. I was at peace when I heard that, not a single dot of bitterness enveloped me, I was happy, that was the time I realized that I do not have the slightest feelings for him anymore. From then on we became friends, yes he'd still tell me he misses me and he still loves me, labas sa kabilang tenga na lang yung mga phrases na yun, kasi nga I have forgiven him already. Kaya I was able to move on with my life, now I'm happy and in-love.

(Oh we still have not seen each other ha, the conversations we have made were over SMS, CALLS and INSTANT MESSAGES only) I still kept rejecting his offers of "eating lunch or dinner." For the sole reason that I do not want to see him cry again.

So Prince, tell your friend to STOP insisting that they be friends, not now, they will eventually. If one of them still have not forgiven each other, they can never be real friends, plastikan friends pwede pa. Believe me it takes time.

Prince please tell this to you friend...
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve,
then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

/thx

naawa ako sa kaibigan ko, parang nag karoon sya ng bf na may sira ang ulo. tinext ako ng ex nya kagabi mnumura ako, kaso nde ko pn2lan, may balita ako ttirahin daw ako d2 ng mga kaibigan nya, nag tataka ako bt ba ako nssali sa gulo nla ng ex nya, wala naman ako gnawa, ung babae ung unang nag text sakin humihingi ng advise, nde nga ako ng gulo nung cla pa dahil nggalit daw ung lalake, ewan ko kung bkt laki ng galit sa akin wala naman ako gngwa, ngaun ang gs2 nya naman mngyari "KAILANGAN BALIKAN SYA NG EX NYA KUNDI PAPATAYIN DAW AKO" /swt

I've been in that exact situation before.
I've heard that same exact line before.
Natatawa ako na may mga lalake pala na ganon ang ugali,
akala ko iisa lang siya sa mundo. /wah

Given the current situation ganito ang mangyayari:
GF matatakot and babalikan si ex

Tell her... she's just going to enter hell on earth.
And it would not be a very good situation for her.
The BF will have FULL CONTROL of her.
ANG PANGET ng PAKIRAMDAM, paki sabi sa kanya.

If you really want to help your friend,
alagaan mo yung sarili mo Prince, wag ka na lang muna gumimik, hindi ka naman papasukin sa loob ng bahay mo ng mga friends niya na yan. So wag ka muna mag labas labas, and mag tambay sa labas ng bahay niyo. For your friends sake. Mag subside din yung galit ng xiao xiao niyang ex.

Tell her wag siyang pa-control!
sumbong siya sa Mom niya and sa Pulis kung ayaw siyang tantanan ng ex niya.

Madaming paraan pag gusto...
Maraming dahilan pag ayaw...

women who end up with men like that are likely to end up as battered girlfriends or wives. tsk tsk tsk, habang maaga pa dapat marealize niya un and i am not kidding. by battery it doesn't mean physically but as well as emotionally and mentally too.

@ mameh fel

/thx

Sinabihan ko na ung friend ko na ayaw ko na mki alam sa kanila, kung anu ung desisyon nya panindigan nya, wag sya mtatakot na may mngyyari sa akin, gawin nya ung ikliligaya nya nde ung mkisama pa sya dun sa siao siao na un. Nag decide na rin sya na "KAHIT FRIENDS" wag na daw, sinabi nya un doon sa ex nya, dahil ayaw sya tantanan, kahit sa condo nya pumunta at nag ipit sa pinto ng letter, nagalit sya dahil ung mommy nya pa nkakita nung letter (ayaw nya kc ipaalam sa parents nya na may bf sya dahil ayaw rin nung parents nya doon sa guy dahil mayabang, tsaka only child rin kc sya) tapos aun ang dami pang drama nung guy, by september 6 tingin ko uuwi ung guy d2 sa bicol, bakasyon na ng csb sa sept 6 eh.

@ mameh dharma

Oo 22o yan, cgro npag icp icp na rin nya yan, pero tingin ko lakas ng pag ktanga nung friend ko pag inlab /heh

if i were the girl shet drop the whole thing and move on...kc naman ang stupid naman nung guy asking for a break up and then following day asks for a make up...lolz

@ ^

i agree. mamaya maging psychopath pa ung lalake at naku, big time dangerous stalker na siya. i mean kung ganun na ka obsessed ung lalake para bumalik siya it uh scary. i mean tinanggihan na ng babae and he is doing that.

ewan ko lang sa mga style ng lalakeng manuyo pero, nakakatakot tlaga

dnrop na sya nung girl pero ganun pa rin, meh sira na yata ulo. sabi nga nung girl "SIGURO NGA, TAMA KA, KAHIT FRIENDS WAG NA! nde mo na ako nrrespe2"

@D-GROHL and dharma
Wag kayong ganyan natatamaan ako :sad:
I had my share of being blinded with love naman...
And yes aamin ako nung naging ala stalker na siya...
we got back together, and I was in HELL.

Kaya ganon na lang advice ko kay Prince na i-advice sa friend niya...
because she wouldn't be happy... the guy will have full control of her.

Oo I agree, na-drain ako nun emotionally.
To the point na naging manhid na ako.

It took me several months before na-restore yung happy ole me.
Tapos ayun... na in-love na si fel... :mika:

Kasi I know that...
God will never take away something,
without giving something better in its place.

I've never been this happy, in-love everyday.
Ang sarap ng feeling :shy:

@prince
you're welcome. ^_^
I see... eh mag-ingat ka na lang... saglit lang naman ang sem break ng CSB.
So mga 1 week ka lang na wag lumabas ng bahay. (ref: to gimmicks, night outs...)

@ ^

yes yes, nde naman tlga ako nag nnight out eh or gimik, school -> bahay -> school -> bahay lang haaha, abangan nlng nya ako sa guard house sa bahay namin haha mas maganda :geegee:

dami ko n22nan, buti nlng nde ako ganun tipong guy na halos mssiraan na ng bait, hanggang iyak lang at once lang /e4

and agree ako doon sa nkwen2 mo about nung nag kwen2 ung ex mo 2ngkol sa new na nliligawan nya, doon tlga mrrealyz na wala kna feelings or nka moved on kna, last night ko lang nalaman haha

^
Prince hahaha! ikaw ha usi :aversion:
Wow may mga good boys pa pala natitira ngayon...
Haha! Basta mag ingat ka lang... love can cause extreme stupidity...
So... mag-ingat ka na lang, lalo na you drive your own car diba?

As for your friend naman...
Tell her it will take time, pero she should completely stop trying to communicate with her ex. Kasi naloloka na yung ex niya. :aversion:

mamziii fell!

d naman sa pinatatamaan or what but the thing is...we all had our share about this

situation....its perfectly natural for us humans to feel and experience some sort

of love limbo...ang nakakahinayang lang kc is that why we dont learn from it...

d ko naman sinasabing tanga tayo lahat kc kahit anung gawin natin matindi talaga

panama ni cupido...oh well thats the story of love....stupidity will always be there...

i had my share and i hope itll make me more aware of the situations that i will enc-

ounter in the future...


moving on is probably one of the worst situation we'll have to undergo...but it doesnt

mean that its the end...it is also a learning experience which all of us need to think

about..ponder on the things that we made...mistakes...love...sex..and all the things

that encompass this thing called LOVE.

@ ^

yah un na rin gngwa ko ngaun /heh

i already told her na nde na ako msydo mkpg communicate sakanya.

pag nakita ko ex nun ssagasaan ko un :lolz:

@ fel

tama si grohl, hehehe, lahat naman tayo naging tanga once upon a time and as survivors eh malalakas na loob natin magsalita about moving on now and sharing our ordeal. dati nga d ka naniniwala sa ex can be friends and now u find urself agreeing that some exes are better off being our friends (kahit hindi close friend) and some are better left to be forgotten totally nyahaha.

@ prince

hahaha - lakas ng loob mo ah /gg

- - -

eto naman, situation ng male friend ko:

some time ago, nilapitan niya ako kasi pakiramdam niya niloloko siya ng gf niya kasi pansin niya laging may excuses si girl. finally, one day, text siya ng text tapos sumagot si girl na may kasama siyang male friend at nanonood ng sine, kung pwede afterwards na lang daw. eh sobrang love niya girl so ok lang, naghintay siya. while waiting, nagtext sa akin si lalake - sabi ko iwan na niya. he ended the relationship a few hours later and said he felt better at ako naman si happy-for-him at mukhang coping. a week later, nagtext ulit si guy - lumapit sa kanya si girl at naiyak - aun nagkabalikan. nag no comment na lang ako. some months later ata or weeks - aun, naghiwalay na ng tuluyan. text si guy na kinausap daw siya ng bestfriends ng girl na d na raw happy si girl sa kanya (at napapansin din niya) - hayz

so kanya-kanyang bato sa ulo na lang yan, eh kasi kung sino ang mas in-love or talagang in-love sa relationship, siya talaga magsusuffer kasi deep inside, alam niyang ginawa naman niya ang lahat pero wala pa rin - dito papasok ang if you love someone, set him | her free.

whether lalake or babae eh pag love problem talagang nakakababa ng self-worth pero on the other hand, mas nakikilala mo sarili mo sa process at mas nagmamature kapag napagisip isipan na ang mga nangyari without any denials, acceptance lang.

@D-GROHL and Dharma
D-GROHL!!! Miss na kita mag RO ka na ulit, kasama ko lagi si Tryk ;))
What I meant was that, kaya ako tinatamaan kasi, I remember it was you and dharma yung may pinaka honest and sincere sermons sa thread na ginawa ko dati sa Cupid and Psyche section. I know na you're telling me those things before, kasi concerned kayo sakin and nakikita niyo ng nag papaka-martyr na ako. (which was at that time hindi ko nakikita) :lolz:

Kaya nga I'm really thankful that you guys were there, to make such "hurtful yet sincere" comments. :mika:

Yes I am stronger, yes I have learned a lot from my past relationships, ngayon ayaw ko na magkaron ng boyfriend! nyahahaha :aversion:

(nasabihan na nga ako ni dharma na, I've grown... na-touch ako dun sis promise)

So... Thank You Tai it was your hard work and patience that made me feel this way (referring to completely moving on) :galatea: Eh I'm in-love... :jemski:

@prince
Naku ha! sayang ang koche mo! don't bother! batohin mo na lang :aversion:
Seriously, hayaan mo siya, wag mo sagasaan... buti sana kung babayaran niya yung koche mo! :))
Balitaan mo kami prince ha? Kung ano mangyari... wag ka naman magbabalita na nabugbug ka ha! naku naku...

Re: Dharma's friends' situation
no comment na ako diyan, he learned his lesson, and so did i.

since ngayon lang ako nagpost dito dahil hindi ko din alam kung ano ang ipopost ko dito... i admit na may pagka-related sa sitwasyon ko noon.. anyways..

it really depends on other peoples feelings.. hindi lahat tama.. nagkakamali din naman tska hinding hindi maiiwasan ang pagiging tanga pagdating sa pag-ibig.. that's why i'm also learning from my mistakes and it's better to move forward than to stay from the past. /ok

tska nagpapsalamat din ako sa mga binigay sakin noon ni mameh fel na mga comments nung nag-usap kami dati /thx /heh kaya ngayon okay na ako tska kapag tapos na ako sa college and may stable work na ako na babalik sa mga rela-relasyon na yan :D

tingin ko kelangan muna tlga m22 nung friend ko, kung gs2 nya balikan, balikan nya, kung may m22nan sya na lesson, since 1st tym nya ung bf at ex na un, cgro nde nya pa alam kung anu tlga ung feeling pg nkpag balikan ka, kung better or mas worst pa,tingin ko kc kahit anu sbhn ko nde un 100% o 99% na mniniwala, sympre mas maganda kung maranasan nya mismo ng madalas hahaha

@ mameh fel

sure! /ok

gs2 nga mkpg kita sa akin nung friend ko, bka hhagulgul sa iyak, kaso umiiwas ako dahil baka lalo lang lumaki ung gulo.

@ mameh dharma,

aba parang ako haha oo 22o un, pag mahal mo tapos nde masaya sau, set free!

@prince
siguro mas maganda kung ganon gagawin mo hayaan mo muna xa kung ayaw nya tlga makinig.. let her experience the best and worst scenario of being inlove.. let her grow in her own way of finding the reality of being inlove.. what you can do nalang siguro is be her guide.. huwag mo nalang siyang iiwan, for sure kung magkaroon man ulit sila ng problema, tatakbo xa sau.. so be her listening buddy and give her a shoulder to cry on.. ^_^

hahahah aww thanks...we feel what you feel ika nga...well thats the cycle of life...

win some loose some...in the end theres always someone better...


ot:

mamzii...deins na pede mag ro kinakain ng photography oras ko ahahaha...

pag me time to spare why not...hehehe

friends muna

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:mika:

from the start plng cnb ko na yan sa kanya, cgro 1 year na nkalipas. buti nlng marunong ako 2mupad ng promise.

nkpag decyd na sya, nde muna sya mag bf, mag bf lang sya pag ready na sya ipklala ung guy na un sa parents nya, ang problema nlng nya kung panu ssbhn sa ex nya ung decision nya.

nkpg kta sya knina sa akin, ayaw ko nga sana kaso 2 days na ako knukulit, bka sabhin ang arte ko, babae na ung nag yaya tapos gn2 pa ako haha so aun pnag bgyan ko, kaso nkta kami nung kapatid ng ex nya, pati pinsan at clasm8 ng ex nya nung HS hahaha 4 sure kkulo nnaman dugo nun, and2 lang un sa paligid :lolz:

@D-GROHL
ooohh... busy sa photography how nice :mika:
cge cge if you have time ha? ang kulit kasama ni tryk eh :aversion:

@prince
Naku ha! hayaan mo na yang mga "chismoso't chismosa" na mga yan. Walang mararating ang mga ganyang klaseng tao. Hayaan mo sila. Basta mag-ingat ka lang.
Kung ako sayo sasamahan ko pa yung "bestfriend" ko forever. Kasi I'm sure you miss her.

Hindi talaga dapat muna siya mag boyfriend, kasi lalabas na panakip butas yung "next boyfriend niya" wala namang taong gustong maging panakip butas diba? So mag-pahinga muna siya, tell her to enjoy the single life. Ako namiss ko yung single life, ngayon ENJOY to the max ako :aversion: walang problema, walang iyakan, walang obligation na mag report ka forever, pag pinayagan ka na ng parents mo hindi siya papayag eh di hindi ka makakaalis, yun nga lang walang hugs and kisses :sad: that's the only thing I miss... :sad:

She does not have to tell her EX about it. Tell her to cut the crap! She is NOT obligated to tell her EX anything, lalo na yang mga:
• nag text sakin si ganito, ito message niya.
• pwede ba ako gumimik kasama friends ko?
• lalabas kami ng bestfriend ko.
• ayaw ko pa mag ka boyfriend ulit.

Ang tigas ng ulo ng best friend mo. Mahal pa niya, and hindi niya nakikita lahat yan, sarap i-flying kick /gg hayaan mo siya kung ano man gusto niya mangyari sa kanila ng ex niya, SANA lang wag silang mag ka balikan kasi sayang yung time and effort mo na binigay sa kanya, tapos in the end mag-reckon din sila. SO SANA hindi mangyari yun. ;)) balitaan mo kami... :mika:

baka rebound lang yan....lol punta sa matured threads dun tayo usap...nyahahahahhaha


d ko nabasa lahat ng post no...pero msasabi ko lang enjoy your life

dont be tooo attached...mahirap na....like me...single and ready to

mingle...


lol

@ mameh fel

yah, un din sabi nya sakin kahapon, may nag pparamdam na kaklase nya sakanya, sabi ko edi pansinin mo =)) ayaw nya kc lalabas daw panakip butas lang /e5 haba pa naman ng tym oo dapat enjoy nya na ung pgging single. I cant believe tlga na may mga lalake d2 sa mundo na kelangan lahat ng mga gngwa ng gf nla alam nla, pati text nlng kahit girl to girl talk kelangan alam, dapat wala ma miss ni isang text, dahil mmurahin pa ung girl /swt Tapos pnag mamalaki pa sakanya nung ex nya na buti nde sya sinasaktan physically, eh anu dapat ipag malaki doon kung masyado na pnababa ung pag katao nung girl.

kung ako nlng kasi sana pnansin nya noon eh :geegee: atleast close kami ni mama nya hahaha